In
order to help families be successful at home, Chrysalis has always focused on
the needs of our parents, as well as our students. With that focus in mind, Chrysalis
holds a Parent Workshop each fall. This three day workshop offers parents a
wealth of information about child development, family dysfunction, and overall
family healing. They also participate in group exercises to experience certain relationship
concepts and then sit down in small groups to discuss their experience. . These
small groups are facilitated by experienced parents who have been through the
workshop previously. Parents explored topics including family systems, the
etiology of relational injury, Erickson's Psycho-social Developmental Stages,
negative belief systems, trust, negative control mechanisms, and how to give
and receive feedback.
Twenty-five
parents participated in our workshop this year. These parents represented
seventeen of our current students. Overall,
the parents found it very impactful and exhausting. Since this workshop focuses
strictly on the parents, they learned a lot about themselves and what they
contribute to their individual family system. They went away with a new
perspective on how their family functions in a healthy or unhealthy way, and
what they can do to change it. We
encourage parents to do their own therapeutic work at home while their daughter
is working on herself on campus. At Chrysalis we know that research shows that
if the student does her work while away from the home, but the family system
does not change, the student will likely quickly return to her old behaviors
and patterns.
In
conclusion, the 2013 Parent Workshop was a huge success. However, what these
parents reported as being the most helpful were the small group interactions,
getting to know other parents, and learning about feedback. Several parents
remarked that now they know what their daughters go through on a regular basis
with groups and feedback, and were amazed at their resiliency. The workshop
concluded with a touching and heartfelt closing ceremony with the students.
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